Your 20s are a pivotal time to build a network that opens doors, sparks opportunities, and helps you grow into the person you want to be. But how do you create genuine, lasting connections in a world filled with superficial interactions and digital noise? In Episode 6 of The Adulting Podcast, hosts Saurabh and Anshika share a roadmap for building a powerful network over the next five years. 

Why Connections Are Your Superpower

Your network is one of the most valuable assets you’ll ever have. Whether you’re launching a career, starting a business, or chasing a passion project, the people you know can make or break your journey. 

This sets the tone for a raw, actionable discussion about how to build meaningful relationships that go beyond LinkedIn requests or Instagram follows.

1. Start with Intention: Know What You’re Building For

Networking isn’t about collecting contacts, it’s about building relationships that align with your goals. Before reaching out to anyone, get clear on what you want to achieve in the next five years. Are you aiming for a dream job? A creative collaboration? A mentor to guide you?

By defining your “why,” you can focus on connecting with people who share your values or can help you grow in the right direction.

2. Quality Over Quantity: Find Your Tribe

A bigger network is better is a myth. Instead,focus on  building a tight-knit “tribe” of people who inspire, challenge, and support you. Anshika shares a personal anecdote:

“I used to think I needed to know everyone. But my best opportunities came from five people who really got me.”

Focus on deepening relationships with a small group of people who align with your vision. These could be colleagues, creators, or even online communities that share your interests.

3. Leverage Digital Tools Wisely: Stand Out Online

In an AI-driven world, platforms like X, LinkedIn, and Instagram are powerful tools for networking if used correctly. 

Use AI tools to research potential connections or analyze their work, but always add your personal touch to stand out. Whether it’s a thoughtful comment on a post or a well-crafted email, make sure your outreach feels human.

4. Learn from Others: Study Successful Networkers

You can uncover strategies that work by studying how successful people build relationships, whether through podcasts, interviews, or memoirs. Most industry leaders often prioritize long-term relationships over short-term gains.

This approach helps you see networking as a marathon, not a sprint, and encourages you to focus on consistency and authenticity.

5. Give Before You Take: Build Trust Through Value

The best way to build connections is to offer value first, whether it’s sharing a resource, making an introduction, or offering your skills.

“People remember you when you help them without expecting anything in return.”

This could be as simple as sharing an article with someone who’d find it useful or volunteering your time to support a project. Over time, this builds trust and makes people want to reciprocate.

6. Iterate and Reflect: Keep Refining Your Approach

Building a network isn’t a one-and-done task. It’s a process of trial, error, and growth. Experiment with different ways of connecting, reflect on what works, and refine their approach. Whether it’s attending events, joining online communities, or reaching out cold, the key is to keep learning.

By treating networking as an iterative process, you’ll build confidence and create a network that evolves with you.

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TL;DR – How to Build a Powerful Network in Your 20s

• Set Clear Intentions: Define your five-year goals to connect with the right people.
• Focus on Quality: Build a small, meaningful tribe instead of chasing numbers.
• Use Digital Tools Wisely: Share authentic content to attract like-minded connections.
• Give First: Offer value to build trust and lasting relationships.
• Learn from Others: Study successful networkers to refine your approach.
• Iterate and Reflect: Experiment, learn, and improve your networking strategy.

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Welcome to The Adulting Podcast. Hosted by Anshika and Saurabh, this podcast is your go-to for navigating the messy, exciting world of your 20s. From careers to creativity, we’re sharing honest conversations, practical tips, and the lessons we’re learning along the way. Whether you’re just starting out or looking for a fresh perspective, we’re here to help you figure things out—one episode at a time.

If you like/love/hate what you see, write to us at @akforthevibe and @saurabh.